Aren't there lots of kinds of transference? Like when my cold distant T was really ticking me off, that was a negative transference.

when I wanted to see him in a polka dotted speedo, that was an erotic transference.

When I thought he walked on water at the beach in his polka dotted speedo, that was positive transference.

At least that is what I garnered from my wikipedia search, where all truth resides. I'm summarizing of course, cause I have a day job, after all.

But I'm relatively new to all of this stuff.

Hmmmm.....