A whole lot of people with fewer mental or physical health problems thqn you have push themselves less than you do, Moose. No, you are not lazy!
Dragonfly is right: You work hard at being well. If this were all you did, you'd be a good example. But you're a good mother too. And look at all the support you give people here.

Lazy? Bad example? Heck, no!

*hugs*
Roadrunner