Dear Sabrina...... please do keep in mind that LOVE precedes the natural lustful desire for a persons body for mere sexual pleasure and that your husband wants and desires to with YOU out of his LOVE for YOU and not just from his youthful male need / lust for sex.... MEN visually bond to whatever they see visually when they have the big "O" and you my dear lady is what he sees, therefore, what he wants.

DO NOT be so tough on YOURSELF..... as many of us females are as our bodies change with birth and age..... HE really does LOVE the YOU he has and HOLDS in his arms.

LoVe,
Rhapsody -

BTW - men NEED sex to feel LOVED.... they emotionally bond to their woman during the moments before and during SEX (the big "O").... a God created blue print in them.