[quote=TheBunnyWithin;2095469]Transference is really interesting to me, and I've been trying to figure it out for months, at least as it applies to me and my therapy. Now that it's actually happening to me, I think I'm starting to get it. At least, this is my two cents worth. FWIW - you get what you pay for, and this is free ...

Simply thinking your T is attractive (or not) isn't really transference. Transference is what happens when we unconsciously have feelings about someone that stems from our past experience and is not really based in reality.

Honestly? I was KIDDING about thinking the T was attractive. It can indeed be part of a transference.