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Originally Posted by scorpiosis37
I mean, I didn't want to say "gee, T, you're so awesome on the inside but outside... well....uh..."
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I have exactly this problem. My T is a beautiful person, but... She's OK to look at, but...
I can't tell her she's a beautiful woman, because her appearance is just not that special. I told her once that her hair was "a non-performing asset". (I feel really ashamed to write that down. How can I think that! Ungrateful wretch that I am!) So I tell her she is a wonderful woman instead.
I once took a picture of her. It shows nothing of what I see. In the photo she looks drab and nervous.
Appearance aint worth ****.
[Thinks: Then what is the pornography about?]
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So, for me, that comes up a lot with my T. I see her as maternal and I crave that kind of nurturing from her. I've talked to her about this more than once, and she's always been accepting of how I feel and told me that, given my background, it's completely understanable why I feel this way. However, she often minimizes it by pointing out the fact that she and I hug-- she tells me: "you get that with me!" What I can't bring myself to say-- because I'm too embarrassed-- is that I want more than just an end of session hug. I want to cuddle up to her on the couch and have her hold me (like she would a kid).
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I once told my T that. "That's not going to happen." Hmmm. I think she could have handled that better. What's wrong with touching anyway? 
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Last edited by CantExplain; Nov 10, 2011 at 05:24 PM.
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