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Old Nov 10, 2011, 07:45 PM
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Originally Posted by Forgive77 View Post
Interesting that these articles lately seem to be on a negative slant, and are written as if we plan this crap.

What about the hero man who wants to swoop in and take care of everything b/c he has mommy issues? Who wants to take you in so he can control every aspect of your life, including finances. Takes care of you and suddenly resents you for it. Where did the prince charming go? You know...the one who remembered your birthday, and anniversary. The guy who took you to movies and dinner on a bad day to cheer you up. He'd just whisk you away from all your problems. Now he says he's not a talker, and would rather watch a ball game instead of interact with the one he supposedly loves. You have given him everything you have to offer, body and soul. And....suddenly when you want to pick the movie to watch, or ask for him to help you pick a paint color...it's "no. I don't want to." "No. I'm not doing that." What? Huh? I'm sorry you've picked every movie for the past six months...I'm sorry if I want a say...And...You big jerk you're not going to walk all over me anymore!!! How dare you not watch the, one, movie I want to watch out of the last 20-30 I've suffered through to please YOU! And yes! Excuse me if I tan, work out, and get my nails and hair done. Last I remembered...you were the one trying to work your way up in the world while I put all my dreams on hold to have your children, and stay home with them b/c that makes you feel better. And yes...I'm slightly insecure about my weight and appearance because I’m getting older, and there are younger and younger women coming into the line of work you do....all swooning b/c you know it all, and can rescue them at work, and keep them from making the big mistakes that could get them fired. Also you're gone...and living a completely different life than I do...first class everything and the best of restaurants...while I stay home and eat mac and cheese. You don't call anymore, or act like we even exist. We're just here holding everything up...while you work hard, and give us the worst pieces of you. THANKS SO FREAKING MUCH!! JERK!!

If that sounded like a rant....then this article was a rant too. Pretty unprofessional...all be it mostly accurate...but it fails to talk about the kind of men we attract. We are pretty easy to control for a long time, or at least I am...up until a point. This guy was from Moscow...Most Russians are penis heads aren't they? I mean that's what I've heard. Sorry was that too big a generalization? Or was that my borderline getting in the way?
It's about flipping time we borderlines defended ourselves!

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