<font color="blue"> Thanks again. My T wants me to think about this over the weekend: the nurse has offered (her idea) to "stop by" my T's office during one of my sessions, so that I can meet her. HUH? Like my "meeting" the enemy will all of a sudden make it OK?

I feel like I have to let her meet me, since otherwise I feel they will be able to complain to the judge that I'm not "complying with their requests." </font>

The idea that she can answer any questions I have about the in-home assessment, while at the T's, is also a ploy, imo. Why can't she provide a listing of what she needs for the assessment, ahead of time, in writing, and THEN let me see if I have any further questions before deciding???

I don't have to, T says. I am to think about it this weekend. Well, I'm done thinking. If she invades my T's office too... (if I allow that and then she's in my home...) where else can I go that they don't??????? grrrrr

It's curious to me, also, her use of "stop by" since she is in the area where I live, which is why she is the one to come to my home, yet I live no where near my T's office! If she can "stop by" the T's, then is it a long trip to assess my home???? grrr sorry... the ptsd continues to override my thoughts.