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Originally Posted by shezbut
The author sure didn't sound compassionate at all 
I don't like him! a-hole  He might as well come straight out and say, "Forget her/him. They are worthless and cruel."
I have always worked very hard to maintain relationships that I do have with others. The sexual description is accurate. I have always tried very hard to be #1, so they have no desire to look elsewhere. The same reason I am motivated to eat healthy & work out hard ~ to impress. And, yes, I need to be loved. I need to be #1 ~ not way low on his totem pole of importance.
But, I'm still not an a jerk. I'm not dammit! |
Even though much of what this guy says is true, your right, this guy didn't sound compassionate at all. He makes it sound like we act like this completely on purpose. I understand we are in control of what we say and do, but there is the impulsivity which lives in us that we fall victim to from time to time.
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