Yes, you might get better replies ( ) in the Relationships forum...

but it results from poor self esteem, imo, so you're right about it here too!

I would hope that the two of you could go to couple's therapy and begin to work things through. He needs to learn more about what you need to feel good about yourself, too. If he won't go...then you go anyway. You can feel better about who you are (and it isn't how you "look")...

TC (((hugs)))