My Mom died in July
We were incredibly close
People are reaching to me
I'm not responding
I have not an IRL friend
I go to fb and have actually met irl local friends there but don't post
Don't want to look stupid
I don't know how to respond to their offers of help
and have 82 friend and half of those are cousins lol - really, almost
I don't know how to reach back
My husband is worried sick

How do I let people help?