Hello Again All!
Could use some advice from you all. Recently my husband and my father had their birthdays within the same weekend. My dad's birthday is the day after my husbands and it was a big one his 50th! Anyway, I had been planning my husbands birthday bash while my sister and my dads wife planned my dad's birthday. Well anyway long store short I got the day of my dad's big 50th birthday bash wrong and did not go thinking it was on the following day. Well needless to say everyone in my family was floored with me. My mom screamed at me the next day for not going which is only when I realized my mistake. I explained to my mom that I had made a huge mistake in the days so she calmed down and understood how incredibly sorry I felt about the whole thing. After talking to my mom I tried to contact my dad and when he answered his telephone and heard my voice he hung up on me immediately and my sister wouldn't take my calls either nobody but my mother listen to what I had to say. My dad refuses to take my phone calls, deletes my phone messages, and will not let my sister or my mother bring my name up. I am so sad about all of this. It is breaking my heart and making me angry. My father assumed the worst of me like I would purposely miss his party. I feel so bad but he wouldn't even talk to me so I can try and make it up to him. I gave up calling him for now and mailed him his birthday gift and card. I am not sure if he will just mail it back to me. Any advice out there?

Jennifer