i just thought i'd check out your post, and wow, it brought up so many feelings for me- negative, not positive. i don't know the real reason why, but i have always been uncomfortable around any male professional. (I have do have a couple of reasons now, unfortunately). My doctor, my counsellor, my psychiatrist all have to be female. I have moved around an awful lot- about 12 times in 8 years i think, so that does not help in continuity of care. But I am lucky that all of my GPs have been so understanding during physical exams without me telling them anything- they have picked up on how nervous and uncomfortable I was at the start. But I would definately recommend having a nurse in with you for support. it makes it that tiniest bit easier. all the best of luck