now he has just been round here- he has been trying to ring me (but i'm on the internet so he couldn't get thru!), and he's tried texting 2x and rung 1x on e the cellphone (but i'm on the computer, no-where near the phone!!). he was so concerned he couldn't get in contact with me that he came round to check if I was alright. oh, I do love him and miss him SOOO much...