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Originally Posted by kaliope
Yes Nick, those feelings DO change so rapidly, you will NEVER know WHY, you will NEVER be able to CHANGE how she feels, and because she pushes you away you may NEVER be able to help her.
And yes it is NORMAL for her to feel what she does right now.
I apologize if i am coming across as harsh, but if you are going to spend a lifetime with a bipolar individual, you need to know the REALITY of bipolar.
Again, the symptoms manifest themselves in the many ways we have already discussed that can be very trying on a relationship.
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So what would you recommend I do now?
I feel as though doing too little will mean she leaves or she makes a mistake as I haven't helped her enough, but at the same time trying to bug her might come across as desperate and may drive her away.
Is there even anything I can do, except 'sit it out' and wait?
& If anything were to happen, for example she kissed another guy and then realised she'd made a mistake and came back, do you have any advice in terms of how I can deal with that? I know she wouldn't do it intentionally, and that it would hurt like hell, but deep down i'll know she didnt mean it and i'll want to forgive her but i'm not sure I could.
Ugh
