We haven't talked to her since last Sunday-- at that point she said she was ready to come home, but they(Family) were still talking about when, and hadn't purchased tickets yet.
My T is THE slowest person on the planet and is almost always late ("I'll be there in a couple minutes = I'll be there in about 30 minutes in REALITY") ("Be here at 10 for your session=she'll show up about 10:45) -- making decisions seems very complicated for because she has SO many people depending on her and needing her time. So I am not surprised it is taking them WEEKS now just to decide when to come home and when to get a plane ticket. Its frustrating. But its also just the way she is, and I know she has an awful lot on her plate right now.
I keep praying she will be home by Thanksgiving.
We are not feeling very strong right now

Holding things in (secrets and the therapy stuff we were working on) for MONTHS now is just really hard today. Some days it is better than others. Other times it feels like the whole world is going to cave in. Today is one of those cave-in days