If you can, help him see beyond the bail conditions and to work toward that time in the future; put a "date" on it. Whatever his problems are, help him to get thinking and planning how to solve them so he can get back to a life he does like instead of the depressing one. He has to think about other things ahead so he can move in that direction, rather than just what he does not have now.
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"Never give a sword to a man who can't dance." ~Confucius
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