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Old Nov 13, 2011, 11:49 AM
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"As OE says, keep your requests for support, and you offers of support, basic and in the realm of overall "spiritual" energy and you'll be fine. You might even be able to phrase things from your own experience, if it's edited, and share that too." quote JD

Yes, I know is can be hard to understand and some that struggle with mental illness often feel like they are being threatened or even misunderstood, it can be a part of how they developed their illness.
I know with my own PTSD I am easily triggered by feeling a sense of control from others, being misunderstood, or even being denied.

When we struggle to resolve our issues " genuine support" means that no one in any support group should be allowed to challenge us or hurt us, we should be allowed to come and express ourselves without being subjected to becoming a subject of debate, especially if we gain from our personal form of faith. The best way to achieve that is to be as general and accepting as possible in respect for all faiths.

It truely is not about denying anyone of having faith even though it may seem that way due to the current tone in the world today. But unfortunately that tone has always been there in some ways so we have to get beyond that here, not allow that in a place where members truely need to focus on their personal mental illnesses or issues that they are struggling with. But remember, if you need to connect with someone who shares your personal faith there is nothing wrong with PMing that person for support in that area.

Peace to all, support to all that need help and understanding
Open Eyes
Thanks for this!
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