Thank you Anne.
That's nice you can feel tender about your H, in spite of having a lot to bi**h about
I guess I'm not ready, and I don't think I'll ever want to share a lot of what I write with my t. But I guess I wanted to hear what you're saying- that it can be helpful and not too self involved or out-of-the-moment to at least show him a little of it. That's really cool your t reads all that outside your session! He obviously must be really interested. My t is the one who asked me if people think I'm boring. So it is a little tricky to believe him that he won't think it's boring. I'm pretty sure he has to make an effort not to be bored with me, but at least he's not too bad at it.