Thanks SeptMorn. I appreciate your input, and I do know my son is at fault in this situation also. We talked to an attorney about a RO, but the house my son is building is on our farm, and they use our driveway to get to their house. We can have it worded that she may use the driveway, but not step foot off of the gravel, but the lawyer said that would be HER excuse for not letting me see the baby. However, I talked to Social Services who said there are many different types of RO, and we could have one that simply states she cannot be threatening, or confronting, or use abusive language in our presence. I am going to check that out on Monday. SOOOO much has happened yesterday and today that my head is spinning. She has not even been served with my Visitation Petition and I know what is going to hit the fan when she gets that ! (She is in Contempt of Court for not allowing her son to visit with his natural Father every other weekend as ordered by the Court. He hasnt been allowed to see his son since November, and altho he notified courts - the paperwork just got to her 2 weeks ago today and they will be in Court the last week of this month. Perhaps the same Intake Officer talked with the Father, and with me, and knew how bad things are.

I WANT whats best for my granddaughter above anything else. I do know alot of grandparents raise their grands, I just wonder with my health issues if I am UP to it !

I will probably be throwing some questions your way, thanks for the offer !