Porn is ruining so many relationships lately on here, including mine! At least yours apologized! I agree, I think it is cheating. Porn is addicting like a drug. When they look at it they aren't making and emotional connection to these women.... I know how hurt you are, I'm sorry this happened. I dont know you or him, but with a separation already and now this, I just don't see a happy ending in sight. Just my unimformed opinion.