Thanks again Sept Morn, and also Wisewoman. Interestingly I have been on the phone with the Father of my son's stepson. He called to let me know the Court date for his case against my d-in-law. We talked almost 40 minutes, and he is going Monday morning to file for sole Custody of his son. He caught my d-in-law's wrath in a phone call today asking to see his son in HER home for ONE hour anytime on Easter ( this is actually his weekend to have his son all weekend )so he could give him an Easter Basket. She told him NO. (among many other things). He has now asked if I will go to Court as a witness for him when his case is heard. Oh geeeeeezzzzzzz, I feel like I need a bullet proof vest to wear 24/7 as it is ! However, I agreed to do as he asked, since I actually know his son better than he does, and know things that he is totally unaware of. I dont want either child mistreated, although she does favor the son, and admits this fact.

Thanks again for the input, and info, and suggestions. My brain is about fried tonight, but I have a feeling I will be needing this forum alot thru the coming weeks !

Take care all.