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Old Nov 14, 2011, 07:59 AM
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Originally Posted by learning1 View Post
Do you push yourself to trust your t, or wait for it happen naturally? I mean, do you push yourself to tell your t things that feel awkward, or wait 'til they're less awkward?

If you feel like you have a reason not to trust your t due to something t said in the past, would you try to talk about that first, before sharing something difficult?
Over the past year T has said/done several things that made me pull back and think I can't trust him. On the flip side, he has done a lot of really good things that should make me trust him. It's a ying yang thing for me, one week I trust, the next I pull back.
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