Oh WOW. I am so sorry it turned out this way. It sounds like once he saw that you were standing up for yourself, when you showed him who you really are, he turned back into who he really always was, and then even tried to use it against you? Well, you were very brave and strong to confront him. I can't believe he tried to rush you by TEXT! but i'm an older generation! you kids nowadays, I don't know!