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Old Nov 14, 2011, 09:31 AM
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Do you push yourself to trust your t, or wait for it happen naturally? I mean, do you push yourself to tell your t things that feel awkward, or wait 'til they're less awkward?
Little bit of both. There are some things I just kinda waited on, and some things where I told myself, "this is never gonna feel less awkward, just take the leap and trust her already."

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If you feel like you have a reason not to trust your t due to something t said in the past, would you try to talk about that first, before sharing something difficult?
I would absolutely talk about that first. In fact, I have...not because my T did anything, but a previous T did, and it made me have a harder time trusting this T. So, we talked about that before I felt safe talking about other things.
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