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Old Nov 14, 2011, 11:00 AM
KathyM KathyM is offline
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Originally Posted by pachyderm View Post
Personally, I feel that the threat of punishment actually promotes people avoiding dealing with hard choices. If help instead of punishment were anticipated for admitting mistakes, then admitting them might be more acceptable.
If he had attacked YOUR child or loved one you consider to be most precious in your life, how would YOU reach out to help the attacker? Should we rush to the aid of your loved one, or would you prefer we focus our attention on healing the pedophile, the institution, and their respective reputations? Whose life, welfare, and reputation would be more important to you?