I know what you mean...I often have trouble coming up with a topic. And I try to get T to suggest, but I think she's generally pretty hesitant to do it. Sometimes if I'm really stumbling around and getting nowhere, she'll pick up on whatever tiny bit of nothing I've said and try to turn it into something by asking a few questions. Sometimes it works, but mostly not.

I think many Ts are reluctant to try to tell us what to talk about. Sometimes it might just take us a while to realize what we need to talk about, and they want to give us the space to do that rather than telling us what to think about. And even if there's nothing to talk about, that might be important to discuss!

And it's interesting to me...it sounds like you do have things to discuss. (Otherwise, what would have have needed to "pack away?") If you're hesitating to bring those issues back out, why? That's probaby exactly where you should start with T!