Thread: Hating T
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Old Nov 14, 2011, 01:48 PM
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Originally Posted by WikidPissah View Post
I don't see how I can get anything accomplished with this hateful feeling in my heart. I am afraid I would say something mean to him.

When I get hurt I always pull way back, and that's what I am doing. As bad as that it, it's an insticntive behavior I can't seem to stop.
WPissah, these sound like great issues to discuss with your T. Can you talk to him about the hate that you are feeling? It is okay to say something mean to him. T's understand this stuff.

Talking to him about your reflex of pulling back would also be a great thing to talk about.

Can you make an appt. soon?
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