she had hundreds of words spread all over the floor.i kind of had a hard time with them because right in front of be was brother and car(Read some about my brother in survivors of abuse) i didnt say anything about that to her but i put together our family cat,s are awsome.and talked about that but i did put together brother jumpped car but i dont think she saw that .i dont think i caould have talked about it if she did.i am proud that i was able to bring in my bag it only took me months to get up the courage to do it and she was ok with it