Therapists are often very careful not to read betweeen the lines. Part of therapy is an implicit assertiveness training. T will sometimes give you what you want, but you have to ask for it. And be explicit as you can.

I guess this is what I mean about Ts teaching skills. The lessons are there, but they are not always spelt out. It might be better if T did spell it out, though. Otherwise neither of you is speaking clearly and you won't connect.

Eg T: "I sense you want more from me, but I'm having trouble working out what it is. In general, I'd like you to ask for what you want. It will make our relationship richer, and it is a good habit in real life too."