I think the first line says it all. You are a 16 year old BOY.

Don’t expect to be able to make lifetime decisions at your level of maturity. I’ve been in the same situation as you on at least two occasions. It feels like your whole world is caving in. Seeing your other half disappear in front of your eyes.

Your world is NOT caving in. All relationships grow stale over time, and I know just how much it hurts seeing her enjoying life while you sit watching on the sidelines. But sometimes (a lot of the time) people grow apart; it doesn’t have to be anyone’s fault. Life just happens, and you have to go with the flow.

Believe me, you will look back someday and think that this time was a very difficult time in your life. But you will get through it and you will become a man.

Hang in there!