Dear Irishsj,
I feel you pain and then I asked myself..... "Why did her marriage end in the first place" - ask your self that and then see if it is worth saving or restoring to YOU (and you only). I find that we often want what we do not have and it is hard to let the heart go once it has loved another.... you must look within your self and see if you miss him out of comfort or out of real love.
I will be PRAYING for you - asking God to lead you in the way you should go.
((((((( HUGS ))))))) ~ ~ ((((((( HUGS )))))))
LoVe,
Rhapsody -