Thanks for your insight. I've packed away things because I've told my T. that after the new year, I am no longer continuing T. I've run out of $$. I've switched to every other week at a reduced fee but it still is too much $$. I'm not in panick/chaos mode anylonger and I know I will survive even if I haven't dealt with everything ... I sent T. an email telling him tonight about ending T. and asked him if there was anything that he felt I needed to talk about, anything we said we would get back to but didn't, anything he wrote in his ipad he wanted to discuss...

I know he will read the email but I"m not expecting a response. If he has a topic I will find out about it Thursday night. If not, I have some current day issues to discuss... cause I'm not "unpacking" the past...its too exhausting.