Okay, I can't figure this out, I mean I can't figure out what you need right now, or if you should call him, but what worked for me last week, was when I said to myself, if I were reading this on PC, what would I tell them? I'm not sure you're there yet, or if you've already overthunk it. Why not just call him now, and if you need to call him again when you do get the news, you can call him again. His love is not rationed, this is not WWII.