Thread: Oh Heck NO!!
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Old Nov 15, 2011, 12:37 PM
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Originally Posted by Wysteria View Post
I know I should probably feel something..but I don't really give a flip flying f*&^ about their souls or hearts right now... Has your T ever asked you to see it at all from "their" point of view? (Mind you part of my question I HAD asked had to do with why/how it had happened the way it did...) [/COLOR]
Is that part of the healing process??
I have no idea if that is part of the healing process. I haven't experienced what you've gone through but it seems to be to be quite a leap to 'see' it from their point of view when you're still suffering the way you are. But then again, you DID ask T why it happened that way. So, T is probably not to blame entirely for putting such a comment out there.

But once my T had asked me to imagine all the people out there who were feeling like I was feeling and I just told her ' that doesn't help me at all.' So, I suppose you could say the same to your T.