Why does attachment have to "make sense"? It's a feeling and feelings are feelings, not thoughts; only thoughts "make sense". But, don't you see - I WANT THEM TO MAKE SENSE! T is not a friend (that's o.k), I have no history with T (just these few months) I see T just 50 minutes a week (probably just fine) So, what the hey????

Does your attachment to your friends "make sense"? T is someone you have met who is helpful, why would you not feel good around that person in that situation? I've had attachments to bosses, miss my father-in-law as a person more than my father though both were wonderful men, both of whom I loved (both are deceased), who we are attracted to is not for making sense, it is for enjoying.But attachment to T feels much more emotional than my RL relationships. Maybe because she's only there occasionally?? Or what? I want it to make sense.

Feelings are information; Well, it's information I'm not able to decode yet. What good is information if it's not understood?they are your emotional eyes that tell you about how you relate to the world around you, the person in front of you, yourself. If you don't like T, you don't attach, you repulse and move away. Now go eat your vegetables, they're good for you No problem here, I love veggies