This is a very toxic relationship, especially for her (no offence). I am in her soes at the moment. My boyfriend and I have been on and off for 10+ years, we have a 7 yr old son, have never lived together nor been engaged.. etc... He has cheated on me NUMEROUS times and I have always taken him back. But only because I blame myself for his straying. I'm not the easiest person to deal with and now I understand it DOES have something to do with being Bipolar AND Borderline. But as my Therapist has told me, if he truly loved/loves me, he woudn't have strayed but would hav broken it off with me first. I agree..Yet here I am, still his woman, just waiting to see what woman he cheats with next. It's not fair to me I know, but I stay for our son.

You need to let her go so she can find true love, a man who can appreciate her for who she is and make her happy.. I wish my man would find another woman to treat this way and let me go...