A third alternative could have been to go for a walk to begin with. I don't agree that a man should "restrain" a woman or sit on top of her. That is kidnapping. "Love" is not an excuse for holding someone without their consent and I really don't see her consent in this, I see you overpowering her, verbally, and when that doesn't get you the answers and results you want, then physically. She has the right to do whatever she wants to her body; you, sir, do not. If you want to call the police to stop her from harming herself, if you feel she is truly in imminent danger, by law you may do that. I will no longer follow this thread. There should be a trigger for violence against women on it. I wish you all the best.