I guess my take on it (and obviously my thoughts are as clear as mud right now) is that our relationship was great before I read the text and since he doesn't know I peaked at his phone, why should I rock the boat at this stage? It plays in my head everyday and I want to confront him about it, but if I do I think I'm afraid of the result. If it was just guy/guy meaningless banter then he's lost my trust for snooping and well if it's the truth, then I've clearly lost him. Maybe I'm just fooling myself and not ready to face facts yet.