Irishsj

Yes, I too thought of the little one spilling juice and being treated like a criminal. That was a serious danger signal that you ignore at your peril. Never trust a man who is short-tempered with a little child.

And I absolutely agree with every word drunksunflower has said - please heed her words of wisdom! The kids don't need your ex's mood swings and these ups and downs are no good for you either. Your requirements are continuity, calm, peace - not a roller-coaster every time you come into contact with him.

Please think about it very seriously.

FG