I suppose that its different for different people and the different therapies they do. I know some people who go to T and its just no b ig deal, there's not a connection, they just pay a person for a service and they go home and thats that.

But for me, its VERY important to have a connection to my T, especially considering the intense trauma work we do. I wouldn't be able to sit there and talk about all that awful stuff and make myself all vulnerable if T and I were not intensely connected.