Perna- I don't agree with you with the jealous thing but whatever. I have been working on my dad and I's relationship for along time. I know the way he was brong up and it was rough but my dad brong us up the only way he knew. I don't want to bring my kids up that way. I want a relationship with him and I have been trying. I know alot about my father because I have asked not because he has just told me. My dad has thrown in the towel with me and I keep throwing the towel back but he keeps dropping it. Its been 4 or 5 years when i first started. All he got to do is pick up the towel and try. I'm not saying that I'm perfect. I'm just saying that it takes two.
The whole thing about my nephew. I think your totally wrong when it comes down to that. I play with my nephew everyday that hes not yelling at me to leave. I love that kid to death. I'm kind of ticked you even written that but that whatever too. I take him and spoil him. Sometimes you need a break. We live together. I see him everyday. So NO I think your wrong when you say I don't want a relationship with my nephew.