YEAH!! My T heard me very clearly and talked to DBT T a couple of times and decided that it was best if I just continue the group only!! DBT T tried to discourage this but T decided that for my safety that this was the best option for now...

Yes, I did say that...I felt "female" for being "foolish" enought to trust my instincts when reason said that T's should be safe...but T said that even T's can be unsafe or poorly equipped. That was hard for me to accept and kind of shook my world. And yes, I felt something like anger coming from him that scared me. Unfortunately, I will never know for sure, but I can live with that for now. Ya'll told me to trust my instincts which yes are a "more" predominantly female trait and I'm glad that mine were so strong and led me away from him... Most of all, I'm glad that I have a T that was willing to listen and validate those feelings and in the end agree that there was something off and that I was in an unsafe place for me.

Hugs to each and every one of you that helped me make this very difficult decision to leave a T and listen to those those niggling, hair on the back of my neck raising feelings and protect myself whether they were valid or not...

WB