Um, I'm 48-so,maybe this site is really just abunch of us "old geezers" we just don't know it yet. I hear what you were saying in your post though.And yes, I definetly have struggled with being self-centered in regard to how much time I am fixated on myself, my issues, my feelings, my, my my.........cripes, no wonder why I feel bad....but just for today I am gonna try to stay out of my head just alittle bit less and into life/others a little bit more-or at least try. Have a good day everyone!