" Time0, do you give yourself credit for the things that you do well? "
Lol No I don't.
Ok Lets see, I will give you some exemples of what I do. If people tells me the super is great and I'm a good cook, I will reply: I'm not a good cook, it's the ingredients that I have put in it that is good. Or, I didn't cook it, the stove did."
Some people will say I'm smart because I'm bilingual and I will reply: " I'm not smart I was just lucky to have lived in different places with different languages."
Some people will say I'm intelligent because I learn fast and I will reply: " I'm not intelligent, it's just some people needs to see and touch to learn, I just need to listen and I can visualise the rest in my mind. It's just something I do, that's all."
You see I can't find anything positive in myself to bring up my self-esteem because I can't accept that I'm good at something. A long time ago something happened in my life that has affected me very badly and since then, I never could accept that I'm good at something because I can't get over what has happened. I can't accept that I could be better then this person who I would have given my life for.
Thank you (((((((Rapunzel)))))))))))
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