I think the two of them need to work it out without everyone else giving their own opinions. Your daughter can feel hurt but I am a little worried about the whole "contest" thing that could be coming from you. You should not express sorrow for your daughter that she is not pregnant, there is nothing wrong with your daughter having/not having a baby! It is not bad to not have children. You may want all the grandchildren you want but putting pressure on a child to have grandchildren for you is not helping. It's not a school grade that can be made through hard study!