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I'm tired of consoling and trying to advise him, because I can't help him. There's nothing I can do, I have no personal experience in quitting opiates I don't know what he's going through and I have no clue on what he should do.
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the only time change may occur is when he decides to change his self-destructive behavior. we have no control over others. i know you are aware of that, tho you are concerned for him.
one suggestion is AA or NA. you could offer to go with him for support if he agrees to go. plus you may find it helpful too re your addiction.
but what is known is that you and he have to make your individual choice to stop using.
also seeing a doc re withdrawals is important. there are meds to safely come off.
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