Thank you for the responses.

He's been trying to quit, but he's relapsed more times than I can count. I know I can't control him but I'd like to usher him in the right direction.

Leed your absolutely right I shouldn't enable him, but I don't know what I should do he's constantly in pain. Most of the time I just buy his cat food or liter so that she can be taken care of, but even if I don't lend him money he'll just borrow from someone else.

When I was using I found it impossible to function in day to day life which is what ultimately led me to quit. He's a much more functional addict than I was that's why I'm at a loss for what he should do.

Perhaps some NA meetings would be helpful, I know he's been struggling. I've tried to get him to go to a local detox center, but he only really cares about quitting when he's run out of money.