Good on you for sharing this.
I so understand the anonymity-- it took me being here, first 3 years(05-08) and now 2 more years before I let others know when the time to "celebrate" was. (trauma and abuse can sure affect one's life for a loooong time)
I wish you the Happiest Birthday ever! and I wish, with all the wishes in the world, that only rejoicing comes to you.
best to you
fins