And you've reached that state of no ambiguity and much clarity? So, it's in the attention to 'feelings'? No, you also state that you're still in utter confusion.

Yeah, it's almost a year now that I've been doing this. I'm just not sure that this whole attachment thing to T really helps resolve my other issues. I keep going back and forth in my assessment.

On the up side - I think she's flying back into the country today. Even though I won't see her for days, there's a real sense of security knowing she's close by again. Why? I haven't the slightest...