i dont thinkg she physically cheated. i feel there is a connection between them. i would feel uneasy as well. especially since she lied about her going out with him. that was uncalled for how does she expect for u to trust her with this person if she lies about being around him. it good that u confronted her about it dont feel bad. you told her what u felt and that it bothered you.

dont over stress about it but i would keep an eye out. i believe you have met her friends or people she interacts with? why hasnt she introduced u to him?

am very happy to hear that you have been married 25yrs and have a good relationship, dont hear that much often nowadays.

also she says that ur "jealous" about the guy and dont trust her. ur showing concern and ur worried and u feel that she is hiding things which at one point she did. explain that it really bothered u and hurt u and how does she expect for u to not b
suspicious when she is lying. have u asked her if she sent those sexy pics of herself to him?